133. Obsession with rules can be a superpower

Rule nerds are the best. They make me feel like I have a superpower, and you should take really good care of the rule nerds in your organization.

 

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I frequently have the privilege of working with groups of incredibly smart and experienced people on interesting projects, engaging conversations, and fun exercises. The luckiest organizations, in my opinion, have at least one person in the room who is obsessed with the rules: knowing what they are, understanding what they mean, knowing when we’re close to breaking them, anxious when we do in fact break them, and hoping others will take the rules as seriously as they do. Let’s call them rule nerds. I’m admittedly at the other end of the spectrum. I have a great deal of respect for the rules, but mostly ignore them and trust the others around me to help to keep me in line. You can already see why being rule nerds kinda feels like having a superpower. I can go around being creative, or pushing boundaries, or being generally annoying and aimless, and if there’s a rule nerd in the room they will warn me way before I do anything destructive. It’s especially great if the rule nerds also like to have fun. Sometimes, OK frequently, I will ask boards to do exercises with rules that are obnoxiously ambiguous – where part of the exercise is to creatively interpret the rules in a way that will lead to the best or most useful result for your team. The fun-loving rule nerds help their teams to make sure they’re actually, you know, doing the right work, but then also get a kick out of taking ambiguity and making it more precise, more practical, and ultimately creating order out of chaos. Take good care of the rule nerds in your life. If you’re like me, they might just keep you from stepping on some rakes.